What is an Elegant Handshake? First, it’s important to understand that there’s a big difference between a business handshake and a social handshake. In a business setting, follow these simple steps: 1️⃣ Palm to palm. 2️⃣ Shake 1-3 times. 3️⃣ Always reciprocate. However, in social situations, it’s different. The power is with the woman—you decide whether to shake hands or simply give a nod. You don’t have to reciprocate, soft handshake is more appropriate. Mastering the handshake is an art. It’s